WHEN ALLAH DECIDES, WHO ELSE CAN DECIDE OTHERWISE
ALLAH says in the Holy Quran to the nearest meaning;
To ALLAH belongs the dominion of the hevens and the earth; HE creates what HE wills. HE gives to whom HE wills female [children], and HE gives to whom HE wills males. Or gives in mix of males and females, and HE renders whom HE wills barren. Indeed, HE is Knowing and Competent. Ash-Shura 42:49/50.
So people are divided into four categories when it comes to blessings with children: some are given daughters, some are given sons, some are given both sons and daughters, and some are not given either sons or daughters, but they are rendered barren, with no offspring. Only ALLAH knows who deserves to be in which of these categories. Why using evil means to conceive?
Similarly to HIS CREATION, HE created four categories of human beings. Some without father and mother such as Aadam. Some without Mother such as Eve, Some without father such as Jesus Christ and some with both parents like Muhammed peace be upon them all and that’s part of the power of ALLAH as signs for HIS Existence and Power. Let’s rely on HIM solely for whatever we want through patience. Our attitude during our waiting period counts a lot in the court of ALLAH. Nothing can benefit us without HIS involvement. Nothing can harm us without HIS permission to test us, so why worry about life running after this temporary world instead of running to the Creator ALLAH.
*_May ALLAH keeps guiding us all and increase us in beneficial knowledge_*. Aameen.