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Thu 16 Ramadan 1444AH 6-4-2023AD at 10:15 pm #89751
From a sister
“God bless you Abu I decided to start to pay attention to a brother that’s showing advance towards me, I asked the brother what are the qualities he wants in a lady you want to marry, the first thing he texted was big br**st which he knows I’m a slender lady, what he texted next is good in bed from a Muslim brother I texted this concerning your post this afternoon most of our bro don’t know what they want how can you see me slender and you’re telling me it’s chubby lady you want and she must be good in bed…”
If the brother has said it without being lustful about it, then he has not done anything wrong. Discussions like that should not be done in confined moments as it can lead to immorality, but it is not wrong if a brother states what he wants in a lady provided it is said politely. Telling you he will want someone that has specific features is not a problem, but if you feel you do not possess those attributes, then you can decline immediately. It becomes nonsensical when he wants to see any part of your body, or indulge in sex chat, on that ground, you mustn’t allow such. Between you and your intending partner, do not allow any form of privacy.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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