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Wed 29 Ramadan 1444AH 19-4-2023AD at 6:15 pm #89822
Immediately you are out of marriage as a lady, there are some men who appear like good Samaritans, they are watching how your marriage has been crawling or the information gets to them, so they are waiting for the day divorce will be pronounced.
They become nice to you and your kids, infact, when they get the information that you live alone, they will celebrate it. These men will come around to show solidarity; spending money, recharge cards and food items.
As someone just coming out of a failed marriage, you will begin to see them as shoulders to lean on, that is the beginning of many mistakes to come. You did not know that they have a nefarious mission.
While you were married, they have developed an attraction, so being a single mother gives them the opportunity to share the other room with you, they just want to have a taste of what your ex husband has kept over the years. Previously married women are the targets of unrefined men, to them, these women are free foods.
After the divorce or death of your husband, men will come in their numbers, majority of them want to ‘chop and clean mouth’. The more reason you do not jump into another relationship without therapeutic counseling.
If he really wants to help you, no problem, please tell him to send his wife or sister to you.
Do not forget the advice from Abu Sheikh, once you are out of a toxic marital relationship; pray, relax, heal and go for counseling.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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