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Wed 19 Rajab 1445AH 31-1-2024AD at 6:47 am #90888
My case is similar to the man whose wife has been refusing her sex for a year now, by turn of this year it would be years that my wife have been denying me sex and we’re still living under same roof. All efforts to resolve our differences have always been futile.
I think I made a terrible mistake at the beginning of our marriage, whenever we have misunderstanding she would always separate bed, if I sleep in room, she would go to the parlour. And she finds it difficult to forgive easily, so she would avoid me for weeks before we can reconcile. The truth is, I love her so much, infact most times, I will beg her even if I was not guilty. I just want the marriage to work and protect our children from experiencing separation.
Along the line I lost my job and things became very tough years after. She started misbehaving, I got some things doing, though not enough, upon this I have never failed in my duty taking care of the home.
Before the lost of job, we have been a good and spacious flat, even we still maintain it and we try to maintain the apartment as we did when things were good. In truth, she’s trying, she is carrying a big part in the financial expenses of the family but her attitude is making me sick. She will not talk to me, it’s like she now hates me.
Recently, I became so depressed, the doctor told me to slow it down, since then I have been sleeping in the room alone or sometimes with my kids cos she doesn’t move closer to me at all.
I have reported this to her parents they have called her and talked to her but she still remains adamant. I have engaged her severally to know the cause of her denial of sex but she would not say anything.
The problem is, I do not want to divorce her because of my kids and we share things in common, I don’t have the capacity to take another wife and I cannot commit adultery, please what I do?
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Abu Sheikh
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