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Tue 5 Shawwal 1444AH 25-4-2023AD at 12:05 pm #89861
We all agree that the rate of divorce cases is very high, yet we are practically not doing anything to stop the trend. The effect of this scourge on the lives of people is also alarming, but it does not mean it is going to stop soon, indeed, we have not seen anything yet. If you observe, thirty to forty years ago, divorce was like a taboo, while divorce today has become rather common, it was once considered a taboo practice—prohibited by law in much of recorded history, so what changed the narrative that every three seconds, there is a separation or divorce.
The institution of marriage has no problem, but look at the attitude of the practitioners, they are not ready to adhere to the structures of the creed, what do you expect? Majority of the brothers and sisters have been punished emotionally at one point or the other, they will go depressed and frustrated, down with regrets, most people are learning about relationship and marriage in a very hard way.
But give that same brother or sister few time irrespective of the past experience, the next mistake will be more than the first attempt, to this end, most previously married individuals are prone to make very expensive errors than the single people.
Those single brothers and sisters have not tried marriage before, but they have experienced failed relationships, this has exposed them to toxicity of relationship early enough, so when they eventually get married, the best of them was in the period before marriage, their performance in the marriage becomes abysmal.
If anyone is telling you that the trend will be ending soon, tell him or her to wake up, because most people are gradually preparing for divorce, not marriage. The activities of intending partners in relationship will tell you, people are yet to understand the rudiments of marital relationship.
A blissful marital relationship is a possible, but only if you deliberately seek it. A good marriage is not a gift.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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