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Thu 30 Ramadan 1444AH 20-4-2023AD at 3:29 pm #89831
It is true most ladies have what will make men drop gifts and money even without asking, yet that does not give room for deceit in any form. Nothing is absolutely free, when these men spend, they are actually looking for something, even if they appear like saints, still our women should stop pretending as if the men are philanthropists.
Some ladies are aware of this extravagant nature of men when they need relationship, marriage or immorality, so they will stylishly get their share before running away. These ladies have taken it as a job, shortly after proposing marriage; they want to pay house rent, school fees, buy recharge cards, clothes, shoes etc. Imagine three days after a sister has accepted your proposal, you could not reach her, by the time she comes up on to chat with you, she says her phone is bad, and as a man, you may like to proof a point, so you decide to buy a phone, then, she gives you a red card, ‘I am not interested’.
Naturally, you feel used and deceived. For her, she has closed your chapter, another ‘mugu’ is waiting. And if you think this is common among unreligious people, you are totally wrong, some sisters are doing it too. The most disturbing aspect of this abnormality is that some ladies are willing to pay with their bodies, provided the men can pay the money, ‘awon omo wal asri’.
A man has spent a lot on a lady that he thought everything will end up in marriage, he practically trained her through school, but when this lady got to the NYSC scheme, she met another guy, and it was time to tell the man who has spent his last card to step aside. The man went into depression, but he took a very bad step by sending someone to wet this lady with acid. It was indeed a terrible situation. Some people do not have ‘forgiveness’ in their dictionary.
It should be clear that being a beautiful lady is not a licence to commit relationship fraud, even if the man is offering you gift or money, you should learn how to say no effectively. When you get these items from these men, it will make them feel entitled, and by time you say no, you might not be able to go scot-free, some may not attack you physically, but they can do other injurious things. It is so bad that some uncultured ladies use ‘African magic’, to get money from these men, at times, some married men will abandon their wives and children for a side chic after eating ‘vegetables’, in a manner of speaking.
Even if you call the man a ‘fool’, because he throws money and items around, have you forgotten that you will account for it before your Creator. There is no justification for deceit, if you are not interested, do not use trick to get money out of him. And if you have collected these items and money, it is better to return them back, except he is ready to do giveaway.
Obviously, most men entice ladies with words, money and items, but do not fall into the temptation of fraud. We should be mindful of our affairs and actions, if you cannot take it, do not do it to other people.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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