Servants Of Allah!
The purposes of marriage are, a) to preserve chastity, b) to preserve lineage, c) mutual satisfaction of physical desire, d) companionship between the two sexes.
If either spouse is deficient or neglects the means to fulfil the purpose of marriage, then, they have neglected the right of another person and abandoned a duty that they have taken upon themselves by marrying.
SEXUAL SATISFACTION: (The biggest tiring issue in Marriages):
The name I give to “good sex” in marriage is: – “problem solver or dispute settler”.
As time progresses in a long relationship, couples disagree more on things than they did before at the start of the relationship. Conflicts due to the difference of opinion become commonplace, and couples tend to drift apart. Sex then becomes an import activity to make a truce. Sexual intimacy helps couples work through their disagreements. A man can wipe off the bitterness his wife caused him if she walked into his arms wearing seducing dresses and give him good hot sex. Yes. And the situation is vice versa.
As with every other aspect of our lives, Islam provides us with all the necessary information for the need for sexual lives of married man and woman. The reason for this is simple🤷🏻♂️; Islam recognizes the innate nature of man, and has ordained sexual relations for pleasure, and not just for procreation.
The bitter truth is
Nobody enjoys being in a marriage that lacks physical passion. Yes. Everybody wants to be desired. Therefore, passionate and invigorating sex is an indicator that your partner is still into you. And being great in bed and having your spouse come back to you wanting more is a great self-esteem booster for both men and women. On the other hand, performing poorly in this aspect can eventually drive your partner to look for other means outside the marriage.
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك