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Thu 16 Ramadan 1444AH 6-4-2023AD at 10:31 pm #89753
Assuming that all men are the same is a mistake most sisters assert, and in reality, it is a fallacy. Basically, there are two types of men; the man you should marry and the man you should never marry. You should not agree to marry a man until you have discovered where your intending partner belongs.
If you marry a reputable man, you will eventually thank Allah. A man that is well refined and cultured, he will value and respect your boundaries, this man is interested in your growth and success, and wishes you a safe landing in Jannah, that if you both make it, the marital relationship continues in the after world.
The man you should never marry will toil with your emotions, use you like a piece of rag and dump you. He does not care about your future or your happiness. There is no amount of good you do to such a man that makes them change. He is only interested in your body, money and connections.
By choice, the majority of women learn about relationship and marriage the hard way, even when they see red flags, they walk down the aisle and marital life worn out with emotional scars, broken hearts, abuse, confusion, anger and sleepless nights.
So, between the honourable and dishonourable men, your choice becomes experience.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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