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Thu 16 Ramadan 1444AH 6-4-2023AD at 10:39 pm #89754
While we are trying our best to send these kids to madrasah and school to get enlightened, we should as well consider their sexual needs. To this end, parents hold the responsibility of encouraging their wards to get married when their bodies begin to move without their permission.
We are not part of those who deceive themselves, who pretend that getting married early is wrong, yet they see nothing in boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Do not be carried away with the lies in the society, some will tell you marrying more than one wife is barbaric, yet they keep side chics and mistresses.
You want these young lads to go from nursery school to PhD level without marriage, this is almost becoming impossible, because you can testify to the fact students do unprintable things behind their parents. A girl is a virgin at home, but she is practically living a couple in the university with her boyfriend. The boy is alfa at home, but a Capon in the cult.
We live in a sexualized society, so individuals are sexually active and perky, the temptation is quite high, only very few people can survive not to go dirty before marriage, this is the reality of now. We are not meant to fight our horny moments, we are permitted to fulfill them in marriage.
Fornicationand adultery come with severe injuries and punishment, then, we must do everything possible to save ourselves and children from the wrath of Allah.
Parents are really failing in their duties, they only concentrate on education, but pay no attention to the sexual needs of their sons and daughters. Look at a parent that has vision, a friend once said, ‘Abu Sheikh, I will inform my children early enough, even when they are in the university, they can get married, I will encourage and sponsor the wedding, give them accomodation and get something doing financially, no matter how small. I will bluntly refuse them the option of fornication, and embrace the opportunity of marriage.’
Since Allah will ask the parents about their kids, they should stop dancing at the wrong time, only a well trained child will be the pride of Islam.
Always pay attention to details.
Abu Sheikh
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