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Mon 23 Dhul Qidah 1444AH 12-6-2023AD at 5:43 pm #90243
THE MARITAL MATTERS!!!
(5 cogent Reasons Why You Must Marry Early)
”I have just broken into my 30s and still marriage isn’t my top priority. I find plenty of women and men of my age who believe that marriage post 30 is a more sensible choice.” Anonymous (A)
”Marriage is a terrible cage; at my age, I don’t want to have anything to do with it.” Anonymous (B)
”I’m not ready because I’v not got my masters. It’s a Sin to just be a Bsc holder and rush into Marriage.” Anonymous (C) e.t.c
SubhanaLlaah!
Are they right in their perspective or is getting married a bit early wiser?Bi-ithniLlaah! I am trying to list 5 cogent Reasons Why You Must Marry Early. I mean the most visible advantages of getting married early.
1.) IT HELPS TO ESTABLISH YOUR CENTER OF GRAVITY EARLY!
Most folks in their 20s are in a constant flux of discovering themselves. Our jobs, relationships and family matters seem to churn our lives upside down repeatedly. During this time, having someone close to you, who understands your mental turbulence and is genuinely interested in helping you, being your soulmate sounds rather helpful.
2. IT GIVES A BETTER CHANCE OF ESTABLISHING GOOD COMPATIBILITY!
Let’s take a look around at the rising number of early divorces. The most common reason is that the two ‘people’ had developed into mature ‘individuals’ when they got married with some very rigid mindsets/ habits. It becomes harder for them to break their mold despite trying their best. On the contrary, getting married early means you are with your spouse during the process of evolving psychologically . During this time, overcoming your personal habits or thinking patterns for creating a greater degree of compatibility seems easier.
3. YOU BECOME MORE ENERGETIC PARENTS!
Parents today constantly struggle to keep-up with the younger mindsets and stamina of kids, while getting married early means you are likely to have kids when your health is at its robust best, with optimal hormonal balance, helping you take upon the more challenging aspects of parenting.
4. YOU LOOK YOUNGER FOR LONGER!
Just a glance at my Mum, yes, I mean my Mum (Men must lower their gaze pls. soq) and instantly you will realize how early parenting can help a lady in preserving her youth longer. It is an established fact that post 30s, the most critical of sexual and reproductive hormones in a lady start diminishing steadily.
Thus, becoming a parent early, means giving your body a better shot at comprehensively recovering from the child bearing demands which works towards preserving your youth.
As a matter of fact, my Mum looks like 35, when she’s well above 50!
5. IT’S SUNNAH!
” He who upholds the Sunnah and stick to it firmly without derailing till Death, is the most successful ”. Little A.H”No one holds on to the Sunnah tenaciously except that Allaah will be pleased with him.” Little A.H
GO AND GET MARRIED NOW!!!
Allaahu l-Musta’aan!
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