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Sat 3 Jumada Al Akhira 1445AH 16-12-2023AD at 5:09 pm #90671
RESPONSIBLE MEN ARE HEROES – AKANDE AYINDE MUTIU ABU HASSAN
Responsible men are heroes.They are the pillars of the families.Responsible men should be commended and appreciated due to their sacrifices and efforts towards making their families happy
A man will labor and work alone but spends the money he gets from his sweat on his family.I salute men who engage in unskilled labor carrying heavy objects in order to survive with their families.
To be a man is not a day”s job.A man pays house rent, school fees of his children,pays bills and provides what his wife and the children will need.
If he borrows loan, almost 90% or 95% will be spent on his family.Some men do not have more than two pairs of shoes.If he wants to buy more than that,he has the means but he can’t due to responsibilities on his shoulder.A woman can have more than 10 pairs of shoes with different colours that will match the colour of her bags and clothes.You can’t blame her or call it extravagance,that is their nature.
It is only an irresponsible man that will be competing with his wife on this aspect.To be sincere, responsible men are heroes.
Some women may not appreciate their husbands until they die.A divorced woman who plays the roles of husband and wife will appreciate what I am saying.
A responsible man will never share responsibilities with his wife except in difficult situations.Sharing responsibilities with one”s wife will cause disrespect.
This is the problem confronting African couples living abroad.
This is also common among the so called”elites” who have been westernized.
A good conscious Muslim woman must appreciate the efforts of her husband and co-operate with him.According to the Hadith of prophet Muhammad (s.a.w): Majority of women will find themselves in hell-fire due to ungratefulness.
No matter the situation a good Muslimah (Muslim women)must not abandon her husband during old age and clinch to her children and grandchildren ,moving from one country to another for “Omugo”and forget the crown of her head.
This is the time a woman must proof her sincerity and love.
Men should also show love, affection and care to their wives.Don’t treat them like slaves or house girls. They are your partners and your soulmates.
My advice to my beloved brothers is not to see any money spent on their families as waste but an act of “ibaadah”worship,They should also not forget themselves.Plan for your future.No condition is permanent oo.Ma go ara e.May Allah bless our families 🙏 aamin.
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