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Tue 28 Jumada Al Oula 1445AH 12-12-2023AD at 5:44 pm #90665
THE DIVINE EQUITY BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
Allãh instructs men to take care of their wives even if the wives are wealthier, man’s wealth isn’t for him alone but for him and his family, men mustn’t rebel against the command of Allãh and if anyone does, a severe punishment awaits him, yet, he may become an object of ridicule before the end of his life just because of deliberately violating the order of Allãh.
A wealthy wife may choose to lift her husband’s burden willingly which is good and rewardable but not in anyway compulsory, her wealth is solely for her while her husband has no control over that, a man is the ruler of the home with the exception of her wife’s wealth, that’s indeed a hard restriction but a true believer has no choice, he either submits to Allãh’s will or risks the danger of the hereafter by willingly going against Allãh’s instructions, at the same time, a right thinking wife will always act righteously.
Allãh instructs the children to be dutiful/merciful to the mothers three times more than the fathers, all believing men surrender and accept this rule of Allãh submissively hoping for the eternal bliss, you’ll even see faithful men talk to their children to do as Allãh commands. That’s indeed a true faithfulness and submissiveness to the will of Allãh.
Hence, Allãh choose to permit men who’re willing to deal justly and concurrently capable to marry up to two or three or four wives, behold that Islãm didn’t bring polygyny in the first place, Allãh only regulated it to four, meanwhile, females outnumber males and simultaneously, majority of men die earlier than their wives. As a means for relief of huge number of single females, polygyny is made an option with the strict command of not having more than four. Note that polygyny isn’t for all, it is for those who have all it takes with the fear of Allãh and willing to strike balance among their wives lest someone ends up in the blazing hellhole.
Alas! Majority of women have chosen to be a die hard enemy of their co women, not willing to submit to what Allãh has made halãl (lawful). Everyone knows it isn’t easy but when it happens, put your trust in Allãh, do your best to please your husband, take care of your children and pray fervently for happiness in your home. All women are happy that Allãh favours them by enjoying their husbands’ wealth, they’re happy that their wealth is absolutely theirs, they’re also happy that they’re given priority over their husbands through the children but when Allãh gives men an option seems advantageous, majority of them become distorted with rage and go extreme in reaction. Fear Allãh!
Polygyny isn’t easy, no right thinking human will dispute that fact but as a Muslimah, you just have to understand the phenomenon, so, if it happens, accept your fate and move on. Polygyny is about every woman getting married not about someone snatching your husband, no one is snatching him from you, you own him together as your darling husband, struggle together to build your Paradise together. Be a true Muslimah and a loving wife, submit yourself to the will of your Lord. After all, everything ends in the dust.
Allãh is indeed equitable with His legislations. Glory be to the Almighty Allãh. The fear of Allãh should be paramount to all believers. Behold, the hereafter is better than this world for the absolute submitters to the will of the Almighty Lord.
Abdulsalam Abdullahi Oladimeji
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