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Wed 29 Ramadan 1444AH 19-4-2023AD at 6:29 pm #89824
I Iave a daughter among my four children that I know belonged to someone else, which my husband is not aware of.
We did not really get married normally because we were dating before pregnancy came in. After serious deliberation, he decided to marry me as his second wife. The first wife kicked vehemently, so he got a room for me in another area not too far away.
To this end, we did aqdu Nikkah to make it official, and we kept the baby. I was not too religious then, but later, the opportunity to use hijab and khimar came, Alhamdulillah.
My husband’s younger brother came from the village to live with me, the first wife was living in a flat but she did not want to accommodate any family member because they supported my husband to marry another wife, so she’s angry with all the family members. That my husband’s brother is 29 years old, while I was close to around 36 years old then.
My husband’s brother was attractive to me, very religious brother, so he started teaching me how to pray and practice the Deen. I started going to halqah on Sundays, infact, it was a turning point for me. By then, I did not have any feeling for my husband again, I was just forcing myself to love him but it’s not coming.
My husband was not happy with this development of dressing a sister, because he was not the religious type just like I was, so this got me close to his brother.
The chemistry grew between us, as a lady, I seduced him on a faithful day, and he fell. We had sex, it was as if we were both waiting for it, we enjoyed it but we later felt bad and ashamed about it afterwards. He is five times better than my husband in the other room. The biggest challenge after that day was that we could resist ourselves, we were still doing it. Unfortunately, I got pregnant to my husband’s brother, but I gave it to my husband, though it was between me and his brother.
He started feeling uncomfortable after I got pregnant. Some months later, he got himself accommodation and got married.
The problem is that my mind is not with my husband anymore, I don’t love him anymore. I wish I can marry his brother, but I don’t know how to go about it. I also want to leave the marriage before people get to know about my daughter, she looks like him {my husband’s brother}, and at times, during family functions, people always tell me how she looked like his real father, I would just laugh over it, but in my mind, I will just say Astagfirullah.
The other person I told was a friend, who advised me not to tell my husband because it will lead to serious problems, infact, he told me that, ‘most first borns are not for their fathers, that I should just keep it a top secret.
I know it is not acceptable in our culture, but is it possible to divorce my husband, and marry his brother?
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Abu Sheikh
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