🌳GOOD MANNERS IN ISLAM
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Indeed MAKARIM AL AKHKAQ …. (good manners) lies in 10 things: Truthfulness in speech, sincere striving to be obedient to Allah, giving the beggar, repaying favours, keeping ties, rendering back trusts, BEING GOOD TO ONE’S NEIGHBOUR being good to one’s companion, honouring the guest, and the head of all of them is Al Haya’ (modesty).”
Aisha bint Abu Bakr (R.A)
(Wife of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ)
1)….. Abu Darda (RA) reported that Rasulullah (ﷺ) said, “ Nothing is weightier on the Scale of Deeds than one’s good manners. ”(Al-Bukhari)
2)….. Rasulullah (ﷺ) said: “ The most beloved of Allah’s servants to Allah are those with the best manners. ” (At-Tabarâni)
3)….. Abd Allah ibn ‘Amr (RA) said, “Rasulullah (ﷺ) was never obscene or coarse. Rather, he used to tell us that the best among us were those with the best manners.” (Al-Bukhari)
4)….. Anas (RA) said, “I served Rasulullah (ﷺ) for ten years. During that time, he never once said to me as much as ‘Oof’ if I did something wrong. He never asked me, if I had failed to do something, ‘Why did you not do it?,’ and he never said to me, if I had done something wrong, ‘Why did you do it?” (Al-Bukhari)
5)….. Abu Hurairah (RA) said that Rasulullah (ﷺ) said, “If one has good manners, one may attain the same level of merit as those who spend their nights in prayer.” (Al-Bukhari)
6)….. Abu Hurairah (RA) also reported that Rasulullah (ﷺ) said,“ And what is most likely to send people to Paradise? Being conscious of Allah and good manners. ” (Al-Bukhari)
7)….. Nawas ibn Sam’an (RA) reported that Rasulullah (ﷺ) was asked about doing good and evil. He replied, “Doing good is having good manners. Doing evil is what troubles you inside and what you would not like others to know about. ” (Al-Bukhari)
8)…. Rasulullah (ﷺ) said, “He who does not show mercy to our young or show esteem for our elders is not one of us. ” (Al-Bukhari)
🎍Sayyiduna Anas Bin Malik (RA) narrates that Rasulullah ﷺ said, “No young person honours an elder due to his age, except that Allah appoints for him one who will honour him at that age.” (Tirmidhi)
🎍If you want to test someone’s manners, give him respect. If he has good manner, he will respect you more, if he has bad manner, he will think he is the best of all.?
– Hazrat Ali R.A
🎍When Islam first came to the Prophet, he didn’t travelled to china to start spreading it, he started from his people. Whatever you want to do of goodness to help others, start from your household.
Today some people come online and do give away, they share money to strangers while their late siblings children are starving at home. If you have the ability to help people, start from your home.
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🎍When complete strangers turned up at the house of Nabih Ibrahīm (AS) he: “brought out a fat roasted calf”. The best dish his family could prepare for them. Nowadays when guests turn up we get annoyed, offer them the cheapest snacks and eagerly await their leave. Honouring guests is part of good manners in Islam, making them feel welcome and feeding them tasty food is something Allah loves and is ready to reward us for. Allah’s Messenger ﷺ told us: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should honour his guest”.
Finally, Don’t dress as you like and say “religion is in the heart” it is like turning the exam paper white and saying “Science is in the head”
We are Beautiful with our HIJAB.
No need for over STYLING.
No need for over DECORATING.
Simplicity is PRETTY, It displays MODESTY, which gives us IDENTITY.
“And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers.”(51:55)
“May Allah grant Jannah to all those departed souls who are not among us anymore. May Allah give us opportunity to make amends to our sins in our life so that we can have peace in Akhirah.”… Amin
