It is true that nobody wants to suffer or likes to live in poverty and this is the major reason ,an average young girl or woman will prefer to marry a rich and wealthy man.
To be sincere,it is good to have money because it brings enjoyment and good life.
If not that Allah uses good and lovely things to describe Paradise, nobody will strive to enter it.
As good as money is, it is important in our lives although,it doesn’t determine happiness and success in marriage.
My dear sister! If you marry a rich and famous man with all luxuries but later in life things turn sour and everything vanishes would you go back to your parents’house ?
Some ladies have ‘entered one chance’due to their materialistic nature.They happened to marry big boys, who are Yahoo looking for young ladies to renew their money ritual.All that glitters is not gold.
The love for money is the major reason why some ladies are still single.
A lady of 32 years or 35 years old who is still searching for a man who is rich,tall,strong, handsome and who comes from her state of origin is deceiving herself.
If care is not taken, such lady will be single forever (Falinau’su billah).The reality is that you can’t get a man who has all the qualities you are looking for,this also apply to a man.
My dear sisters! life is not balance.A rich and famous man may not have time for you.You may be denied the care,affection and sexual intimacy, because such men are always busy on business trips and business meetings.
I really appreciate sisters who married brothers when there was nothing but optimistic that the future will be bright.Such sisters should be taken care of when Allah bless their husbands.
May Allah bless our families and purify our intentions aameen.
Written by Akande Ayinde Mutiu Abu Hassan .
