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Tue 2 Ramadan 1445AH 12-3-2024AD at 9:19 am #91206
Ibn al-Jawzee (RahimahuLlaah) said:
Sayyaar (RahimahuLlaah) reported from Riyaah (RahimahuLlaah) who said:A woman was mentioned to me, so I married her. Whenever she finished praying Ishaa, she would perfume herself, adorn herself with incense and wear her (fine) clothes; then she would approach me and say:
“Do you have a need?” If I said yes, she would stay with me; and if I said no, she would take off her (fine) clothes and stand up for (prayer) till the morning.
Riyaah said: “By Allaah, she really delighted me.” [Sifatus Safwah: page: 116]
The salaf were delighted by their wives because most of them spent their nights in Ibaadaat, and in the daytime, they study the books of the Deen and teach their children Qur’aan, Hadeeth, Seerah, Fiqh, Tawheed, Aqeedah etc.
In contrary, most of today’s Muslim women are pre-occupied in the labour market, some with the “blessing” of their parents or husbands, with the aim of empowering them materially. So in the night, they sleep as if it was their last in the world, while their children’s upbringing is left to their school teachers.The social media, facebook in particular is the biggest fitnah bedeviling the ummah generally today, and in particular, it’s negative effect on the believing women is clearly evident. Some of them stay too long on this platform, and even in the nights, that one begins to wonder if there is a man in the house at all, or that she has nothing of the deen in the house to study or even explain to her family.
Let the men fear Allaah and upgrade their protective jealous, to save their wives from the online predators.
May Allaah rectify us all.May Allah accept it from you and us. Aameen
Allaahu Musta’an
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